Blended Family Wellness Test Results

Adele Cornish, BSW

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How many times did you answer “Yes”

1 – 2 times

Well done!  Your family is integrating enough to achieve genuine and supportive relationships.  Be sure to address the issues that you answered “Yes” to and you will experience long-term success! 

3 – 6 times

You’re making some progress but beware of the problems you answered “Yes” to.

You most likely find your experience of blending can make you feel down and is more fraught with problems than you initially thought.  Chances are it’s issues concerning your children or stepchildren that are causing the most tension in your couple relationship.  If you have been together a few years it’s time to become proactive in making some positive changes.  You must intentionally work through the problem areas because they have the potential to destroy your family.  You would benefit enormously from some practical advice and strategies to help with your particular issues so you can experience a fulfilling family life. 

7 – 10 times

There is hope!  Yes, really. You can experience the greatest transformation in your family.  If you want to save the hassle of going through another failed relationship, you will most definitely require help and guidance.  Don’t go blaming yourself for all your problems because some of them are inherent to blended families.  You have the most to gain and can learn strategies to overcome the many challenges you face to move forward in your relationships.  You have an enormous potential for not only self development, but to make a positive impact on the life of each member of your family.  Don’t give up just yet!

You are not alone, here are some comments we have received from other blended families:

“My husband will not set rules for his children.  He thinks that if he does the children will not visit him.”“It is hard work.  Our relationship is great when my partner’s children are not around, but when they are, our relationship suffers.  I dread their visits.”

“How do I stop feeling resentful of his children and build a successful relationship with them.  I feel very jealous of their relationship with my partner.”

“My partner feels guilty for the breakdown of his first relationship. He treats his kids much better than mine and panders to his ex.”

“How can I encourage my partner to include me in their daughter’s life?  I am not told anything.  The only time I know what’s going on is when I ask.   I am expected to support her financially, but am not allowed an opinion on what she does.”

“She still wants her parents to be together even though it’s been ten years since her parents divorce.”

“There is never any time for us.  Romance is not there any more.  I thought I had the perfect relationship and for the most part we do, but when the kids came along, I took my place at the back of the bus.”

 “My partner’s children are brats. They are so disrespectful and lazy. We can’t agree on discipline.  What can I do?”

The Blending Lives Program has the solutions.

Most blended families dissolve within the first five years due to the problems they are faced with.  I have developed a program that gives you practical strategies and solutions to these problems.  I have used my research and experience to provide you with a system that shows you how to apply the advice in a practical way. The program is designed so that you end up with your very own personalized action plan.

All these relationship destroying issues are solved plus more:

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    What you must do when children play parents against each other
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    How to handle an ex-partner who tries to make your life difficult  
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    How to handle finances
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    How to sort out holidays and vacations between families
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    What you must do to make step children respect you
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    How to stop your stepchildren resenting you and communicate
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    Tools and strategies you must use to have a healthy blended family

If you need help, the Blending Lives Program has the answers.  You can enjoy your marriage and improve family relationships.

A healthy relationship doesn’t mean you have no conflict, but you can resolve conflict.   

The Blending Lives Program gives you skills, strategies and advice to transform your family.  It shows you how to solve the many problems that blended families struggle with.  Further more, it helps you and your partner develop an action plan to make positive changes in your family’s life. This program will equip your family to thrive.

The Blending Lives Program will show you:

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    How to get rid of past baggage so your current family can flourish (New Beginnings)
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    How to overcome the four barriers to intimacy in your relationship; chances are you experience at least one of them (Session 1, Worksheet 7)
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    Two crucial keys to a fantastic relationship (Session 1, Worksheet 4)
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    The first thing you must do before you can create a plan for discipline that you both agree on (Session 3, Worksheet 1) 
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    One psychological barrier you need to confront if you want to raise healthy, independent children – Clue: it stops many parents in a blended family disciplining their children (Session 3, Worksheet 2)
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    The five crucial parts to discipline – Note: many fail to do the last part so are not successful in changing children’s behavior, (no, it’s not using consequences)
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    One thing that destroys many relationships – discover what it is and why you shouldn’t do it (Session 3, Worksheet 5)

You can have a positive and enjoyable step family life no matter how tough it may seem at present.  If you want to successfully blend lives in your family, the Blending Lives Program shows you how.

 Here’s what others have to say about the difference the Blending Lives Program has made in their family

It helped me understand certain behavior in not only my partner’s children but also my own, it has been an enlightening experience.  You covered every part, even things I never thought about.  I had revelations when I did read about them. I would like to thank you so much for the material as my family has benefited greatly from it.”   Mary T.

“I look after myself more than before and concentrate on good things.  I have moved forward and no longer feel stuck as I felt before.  It touches the very real issues in the blended family it provides a significant solutions. If parents are able to implement them the life in the blended family is likely to run quite smoothly.”  M.G

It (the Blending Lives Program)has become an integral part of our plan to change some of the dysfunctional ways we deal with conflict and anger.”  Timothy Brennan, Buffalo, New York

The Blending Lives Program is based on my book ‘Blended Family Success: Practical solutions to step family challenges’ and will provide you with essential skills and strategies to help you experience fulfillment and happiness in your family. It shows you how to make positive changes to transform your family life. It’s happened in my family and it can happen in yours too.

This program covers many different aspects of blended family life. It is full of suggestions, tips, advice and good counsel to enable you to get your family back on track and deal effectively with the tough issues you face.

Since I discovered Adele’s program online there has been a lot of peace and understanding in my life. Her program is amazing.  It helps you decipher certain feelings within and what to not take personal when dealing with ex’s or step-children, and people from the past. Through Adele’s program and knowledge I learned to just be accountable for myself and to be a better more understanding role model for all six kids. I feel really blessed to know Adele and to have used her program, which I will continue to do so.  Thank you for all your help in changing my way of thinking and for making me feel I’m not alone in the World of Blended Families. God Bless.”  Barbara Rodriguez, Youngtown, Az

Each session of the Blending Lives Program is divided into a series of individual topics with a corresponding worksheet for you to complete. The advice, strategies and questions for reflection help you specifically identify how you will put the points into practice to change the way your family operates. Ideally both you and your partner can work through the sessions independently and then discuss and form your conclusions together. If your partner is unwilling to formally go through the exercises, there are suggestions on how to discuss with him/her your insights to facilitate the flow of communication.

Get instant access to the Blending Lives Program now!  You have two options to choose from. 

The first option is the Essential Blending Lives Program and the second option is the Comprehensive Blending Lives Program.  Upon ordering the program of your choice it can be downloaded instantly to your computer for fast and easy access to the solutions you need.

Option 1: The Essential Blending Lives Program

The help you need to transform your family life is finally here.  Using the Blending Lives Program you’ll discover how to:

  • Form a united approach to discipline and treat children equally
  • Resolve conflict peacefully
  • Bond with stepchildren
  • Stop feeling torn between your spouse and children
  • Stepparent successfully
  • Use tactics which separate the blended families who succeed, from those who don’t.

Here’s what you’ll receive:

Session 1   How to Have a Fantastic Relationship
You’ll receive advice, skills and strategies on how to have a fulfilling relationship. Yes, that’s right, a relationship where your needs are met!

Session 2  Resolve Conflict Peacefully
Your ability to resolve conflict directly affects the health and success of your relationship. This session covers essential skills and strategies you must use if you want to resolve conflict peacefully.

Session 3  Effective Discipline
Discipline teaches children about actions and consequences. It helps them learn to make good decisions for their lives. You’ll cover how to discipline, develop a plan you both agree on, cope with divided loyalties and much more.

Session 4  Secrets to Successful Parenting
Create harmonious relationships, banish resentment, stop feeling torn, treat children equally and bond with stepchildren.

The Blending Lives Program is full of suggestions, tips, advice and good counsel to enable you to get your family back on track and deal effectively with the tough issues you face.

“Thank you for these emails. I love them. We have only just begun your program but I already can see that it is going to help us amazingly!” Andrea Schaaf, Missouri, March 2010

Here are some more skills you will learn when you sign up:

* How to get you thoughts and feelings across without nagging

* How to get everyone on board with house rules and expectations

* How to prioritize you life so everyone’s needs can be met

* How to talk through issues without becoming defensive

* How to create a respectful and supportive atmosphere

“It is very useful information to help in this transition with my girlfriend and her son.  It’s been a little rocky to say the least, and the advice given helped us out immensely.  I can sit down and not feel neglected, and actually talk about things with my girlfriend regarding her son’s words or actions.  I can convey to her how I feel and she takes that to heart and really tries to make it work.  Thank you for guidance!!”   Benjamin Garcia, Jr.

Give your current relationship the best possible opportunity to succeed!  Order the Essential Program now for just US$19.95

Plus you’ll receive a full money back Guarantee!

You can feel completely confident about your purchase.  In the unlikely event you’re not 100% satisfied you will get a prompt, courteous refund. Just contact me any time within 60 days and I will rush you a full no hassles refund plus, you still get to keep the program!

 

Don’t remain stuck in a rut. Transform your family life now.

“I look after myself more than before and concentrate on good things. I have moved forward and no longer feel stuck as I felt before. It touches the very real issues in the blended family it provides a significant solutions. If parents are able to implement them the life in the blended family is likely to run quite smoothly.” M.G

Option 2: The Comprehensive Blending Lives Program

The ULTIMATE  help!  If you have specific questions relating to your blended family that you’d like some independent professional advice on, I’ll personally answer them for you.

Take a look at the Comprehensive Blended Family Success Program.  Here’s what you’ll receive:

The Blending Lives Program (as outlined above)

“I love the course you have and are very pleased with the results.  I have found this is something that people need as a resource and some extra support. Thanks!”  DB

Plus: New Beginnings

A special eBook looking at the pain your blended family has evolved out of (death/divorce). It helps you identify unresolved personal issues which can resurface and be destructive to your current relationships. Discover four issues you must address plus how to help your children heal.

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Plus: Ex-Partners & In-laws!

If you’re struggling and would like some help this eBook is just for you! Receive advice on how to cope when these significant relationships turn sour as they have the potential to destroy a blended family. You’ll learn how to communicate with challenging people and get strategies to protect your family. The strategies outlined will help you build the bridge of peace with the difficult people in your life.

Plus: Step Family Life: Help your children survive and thrive

In this manual which is posted  directly to you, you’ll receive an overview of the commonly recommended skills and traits to encourage in your children/stepchildren. This is your chance to learn how to train them to make good decisions for their life and become responsible, respectful and independent adults. You’ll learn how to build your family into a supportive team plus much more. Here’s just an example of some of the things you’ll discover:

  • How to Help Children Identify and Express Feelings
  • Help your Child to Form Positive Relationships
  • Sibling Rivalry: Achieve harmonious relationships in your family
  • Help Children through Change: Advice on blending
  • Understanding the only child
  • Is a new baby right for your family?
  • Your Vision: How to inspire your family
  • Family Meetings: How they can transform your family
  • Values: How to pass them on
  • Family traditions: Why you need them
  • Giving Back: How to create considerate children
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Plus: Personality Profiling

Take the personality test to discover your personality type and that of your partner’s. It’s great fun and will help you appreciate each other’s strengths and weaknesses. The personality test gives you a greater understanding and appreciation of each other’s differences.

Plus: Personal online counseling support for 3 months

Forget having to schedule and wait for appointments to get the answers you need.  Online counseling via email is is a quicker and more effective way to get the help you want right now.

“Adele, I have found the advice to be extremely useful and grounding. Your advice has given me some guidelines to follow for those times when I just don’t know what to do. I find being able to share the advice with my husband helps us maintain a united front and understand where we are going. Thank you so much for your support and it’s nice to have the lifeline of experience just an email away.” Therese Cameron, Australia, March 2010

I, Adele Cornish BSW, International Blended Family Advisor will personally respond to your questions and struggles by email for 3 months. To help you achieve a healthy and stable family environment, I will reply to as many questions as you require. You have 3 months to implement the strategies that will change your family life, while receiving ongoing support. People who don’t have access to professional advice find this very beneficial.  It is incredibly convient and costs much less than to face-to-face counseling.

This is the best value for money and most inclusive package available on the Internet today!   This service over the course of three months would cost in excess of $300 if you pay for therapy.

“I received your advice, thank you so very much. Everything made absolute sense, your honest advice was very much non threatening to myself and partner and gave us the tools from a professional perspective, as opposed to outside influences who sometimes make this even more confusing. Thank you so much again, Adele. With much appreciation, Michelle Godfrey, Canada

Order the Comprehensive Blending Lives Program now for only US$97 and SAVE OVER $300 

 Here’s a list of what you’ll receive when you order:

Blending Lives Program topics

Essential Program

Comprehensive Program

Session 1 How to Have a Fantastic Relationship

Yes

Yes

Session 2 Resolve Conflict Peacefully

Yes

Yes

Session 3 Effective Discipline

Yes

Yes

Session 4 Secretes to Successful Parenting

Yes

Yes

Blending the Hidden Truth

Yes

Ex-partners & In-laws!

Yes

Regular Top Tips

Yes

Yes

New Beginnings

Yes

Yes

Step Family Life Manual

Yes

Success stories

Yes

Personality Profiling

Yes

Personalized, professional email support Unlimited questions

Yes

Full Money back Guarantee

Yes

Yes

Total Value

US$42.00

US$318.00

Order now for only

US$19.95

US$97

 
When you order the Comprehensive Program you’ll also receive the following eBook:

Blending: The Hidden Truth

You’ll discover:  the two types of guilt and how to overcome guilt; why some blended families succeed and others don’t; what to do if you don’t “feel” love for those around you; advice to use if your spouse doesn’t want to bond with your child; three types of love and what love really means.

“I have used many of you suggestions to help deal with the issues in my relationship with my partner (and stepson). You have given me some answers for problems I have been trying to cope with unsuccessfully for 5 years. I feel a weight has been lifted from my shoulders. THANK YOU!!!” Michele Lees, Australia

Order the Comprehensive Blending Lives Program now for ONLY $97

That’s a total value of OVER $300 you’ll receive for JUST $97

I received the following email from Patty shortly after she received her information. She gave me permission to share her experience with you:

“Thank you so much! We are loving it so far. We can’t either one seem to put it down. We are laughing and crying, and wondering if you have been following us around for the past year and a half…recording all of our mistakes. Ha ha!! We have made them all! My husband was wondering if you have been living with us! We have spent hundreds on counselors, who haven’t helped us much at all. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!” Patty Johnson, Colbert, Georgia

Take it from one who knows from firsthand experience in a blended family; you will not experience positive change unless you make it happen.  Allow me to share with you what I and many others have learnt are the keys to success. 

The path you choose today will influence you family’s destiny.  Invest in your family’s future today.  I look forward to working with you!

Warm regards

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Blended Family Advisor

p.s. Remember you can feel completely confident about your purchase. I offer a Full Money back Guarantee. In the unlikely event you’re not 100% satisfied you will get a prompt, courteous refund. Just contact me any time within 60 days and I will rush you a full no hassles refund plus, you still get to keep the program!

“Adele your books, weekly e-mail tips and personal counseling have been God sends that seem to arrive just when I need them most. Your honest and objective advice and encouragement keep me going through the rough spots. Thanks Adele for the gifts you give others.” Doreen Dyet, Ottawa, Canada